If you are neurotypical (meaning your brain functions in ways that are considered the norm by societal standards), you may find it helpful to understand how to better support neurodivergent individuals in your everyday life – whether at work, college, social settings or even within your own family.

1. Embrace Different Communication Styles

Neurodivergent people may communicate in ways that differ from what you’re used to. Some may be more direct, while others might struggle with social cues, eye contact or small talk. Instead of expecting them to adjust to your style, take the time to understand theirs.

• Be patient if someone takes longer to process and respond to conversations.
• Avoid assuming rudeness if someone speaks bluntly or prefers written communication over verbal.
• Offer clear, direct instructions if needed, rather than vague or implied requests.

2. Recognise Sensory Differences

Many neurodivergent individuals experience heightened or diminished sensitivity to sensory input, such as lights, sounds, textures or smells.

• Be mindful in environments that might be overwhelming, such as loud restaurants or brightly lit rooms.
• If someone expresses discomfort with certain stimuli, respect their needs without judgement.
• Understand that stimming (repetitive movements like tapping, rocking, or hand-flapping) can be a coping mechanism and doesn’t necessarily need to be stopped or corrected.

3. Be Flexible with Social Expectations

Social norms and unspoken rules can be challenging for neurodivergent individuals to navigate. Some may struggle with small talk, find group interactions exhausting, or prefer to engage in deeper, more meaningful conversations.

• Accept that some people may need time alone after socialising to recharge.
• Avoid pressuring someone to participate in activities that feel uncomfortable for them.
• Give space for different ways of expressing emotions and forming relationships.

4. Focus on Strengths, Not Just Challenges

Neurodivergence comes with unique strengths. Many neurodivergent people are highly creative, detail-oriented, analytical or exceptionally skilled in specific areas. Instead of focusing on perceived deficits, recognise and appreciate these strengths.

• Encourage their interests and talents rather than forcing them to conform to traditional ways of thinking.
• Create environments that allow neurodivergent individuals to work in ways that suit them best.
• Understand that problem-solving, innovation and creativity often thrive in neurodivergent minds.

5. Advocate for Inclusion and Accessibility

Small changes can make a big difference in making spaces more inclusive for neurodivergent individuals.

• Support flexible working or learning arrangements where possible.
• Provide options for communication, such as email instead of phone calls.
• Challenge stereotypes and speak up if you witness discrimination or exclusion.

6. Be Open to Learning

Every neurodivergent person is unique, so the best thing you can do is listen and learn. If someone shares their experiences or asks for accommodations, take them seriously. Avoid making assumptions, and instead, ask how you can support them in a way that feels right for them.

By making small adjustments and embracing neurodiversity, we can create a world where everyone, regardless of how their brain works, feels valued, understood, and able to thrive.

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The neurodiversity framework encompasses conditions like autism spectrum disorder (ASD), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), dyslexia and Tourette’s syndrome. These neurodevelopmental conditions represent differences in how the brain develops from an early age. Approximately 10-20% of the global population is considered neurodivergent, with some estimates suggesting one in seven people in the UK.

Rather than viewing these differences as deficits requiring cure, the neurodiversity paradigm acknowledges them as valuable variations contributing to human diversity. Neurodivergent individuals often possess unique strengths alongside their challenges, such as the detailed pattern recognition associated with autism or the creative skills linked to dyslexia.

Distinguishing Neurodiversity from Mental Health Conditions

Mental health and neurodiversity represent fundamentally different concepts. Mental health conditions affect thoughts, mood, and behaviors, including conditions like anxiety, depression and stress. These typically fluctuate over time, often triggered by life events or stressors, and can affect anyone regardless of neurotype.

In contrast, neurodevelopmental conditions are innate differences present from birth or early development. As stated by NHS Dorset, “Neurodevelopmental conditions such as autism and ADHD are not mental health conditions.” While mental health conditions can develop or resolve throughout life, neurodivergent traits represent lifelong differences in information processing and interaction with the world.

Common Neurodivergent Conditions

The neurodiversity umbrella includes many conditions affecting how individuals process information:

• Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD): Affects communication, sensory processing and social comprehension
• ADHD: Impacts focus, impulse control and energy levels
• Dyslexia: Affects literacy skills
• Dyscalculia: Impacts numeracy and mathematical understanding
• Dyspraxia: Affects motor skills, movement and coordination
• Dysgraphia: Impacts handwriting and fine motor skills
• Tourette’s Syndrome: Characterised by involuntary physical or vocal tics
• Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD): Affects interpretation of sensory inputs
• Synesthesia: Where stimulation of one sensory pathway triggers experiences in another
• Hyperlexia: Advanced reading abilities with impacts on language comprehension

Each condition manifests differently among individuals, with varying levels of impact on daily functioning.

The Intersection of Neurodiversity and Mental Health

While distinct concepts, neurodiversity and mental health frequently intersect. Research shows neurodivergent individuals experience higher rates of mental health conditions than the general population. For example, up to half of autistic people experience depression during their lifetime, and up to half of those with ADHD experience one or more anxiety disorders.

This elevated risk stems from multiple factors:

1. Living in a world designed primarily for neurotypical individuals creates unique stressors
2. “Masking” behaviors, where neurodivergent individuals suppress natural tendencies to appear more socially acceptable, can be exhausting
3. Research suggests 73% of neurodivergent individuals hide their condition due to fear of discrimination
4. Misdiagnosis or delayed diagnosis can lead to inappropriate interventions
5. Environmental factors like sensory sensitivities can make certain environments overwhelming

Supporting Neurodivergent Mental Health

Understanding the distinction between neurodiversity and mental health is crucial for providing appropriate support. Rather than attempting to “cure” neurodivergent traits, support should accommodate differences while addressing co-occurring mental health challenges.

Creating neuro-inclusive environments is essential, including adapting physical spaces for sensory sensitivities, providing clear communication, and developing flexible structures for diverse cognitive styles. For example, predictable routines help reduce anxiety in autistic individuals, while those with ADHD may benefit from environments allowing movement and flexibility.

Professional support should appreciate the interplay between neurodivergence and mental health. Interventions should be tailored to the individual’s neurotype rather than applying one-size-fits-all approaches. Healthcare providers must distinguish between characteristics of neurodevelopmental conditions and symptoms of mental health conditions to avoid misdiagnosis.

Equally important is encouraging societal acceptance of neurodiversity. As noted by New Scientist, neurodiversity “reframes neurodevelopmental conditions such as ADHD as differences to be embraced rather than treated.” This perspective values the strengths and contributions of neurodivergent individuals alongside their challenges.

Evolving Perspectives in Research and Practice

Understanding of neurodiversity continues to evolve. Traditional approaches focused on identifying and treating perceived deficits, but recent years have seen a shift toward strength-based approaches that acknowledge the value of neurological diversity.

As Geraldine Dawson at Duke University explains, “Neurodiversity reflects an awareness that, across humanity, we have many different ways of perceiving and relating to the world that reflect differences in our brain development and brain function.” This approach understands that while some aspects of neurodivergence may create difficulties in certain contexts, they may confer advantages in others.

Supporting neurodivergent individuals involves creating accommodating environments that leverage strengths while providing appropriate interventions for co-occurring mental health conditions. Research continues to expand our understanding of both challenges and strengths associated with neurodivergent conditions.

To Summarise

Neurodiversity describes natural variations in brain function and development – not a mental health condition. While neurodivergent individuals experience the world differently from neurotypical people, these differences represent normal human variation rather than pathology.

Despite this distinction, neurodivergent individuals often experience higher rates of mental health challenges due to navigating a neurotypical-centered world, experiencing stigma and exhausting themselves through masking behaviours. Addressing these concerns requires tailored approaches.

The evolving understanding of neurodiversity represents a shift from deficit-focused models to more accepting perspectives that identify strengths and challenges. By distinguishing between neurodiversity and mental health conditions while acknowledging their intersection, we can develop more effective support strategies and create a society that values neurological diversity.

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ADHD is a lifetime of being told you’re too sensitive and too moody. It’s the experience of oversharing at parties, only to lie awake for weeks afterward, convinced that everyone thought you were too much and now secretly hates you – even you’re best friends.

ADHD is an internalised hyperactivity that builds to the point where you feel so overwhelmed you physically can’t move. Yet, instead of understanding, people label you as lazy. It’s constantly shifting your personality to be more likable for the person standing in front of you, a chameleon act performed out of habit rather than choice.

It’s a lifetime of feeling misunderstood. But then, one day, you realise you have ADHD. Slowly, you begin to peel back the mask – layer by layer – distinguishing between what is truly you and what has been a coping mechanism all along.

After all this time, you finally allow yourself to grieve for the younger version of you. You wish you could go back and tell them:

You’re not broken. You’re just different. Everything will be okay. You are enough.

Taken from a video by Alex Partridge and his podcast ADHD Chatter

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Sometimes, I get so overwhelmed that I become motionless, unable to even pick myself up out of bed. I feel every single emotion so strongly that, to others, I may come across as extreme or intense. I wish it were easy to meet new people, but social anxiety holds me back, leaving me unsure of what to say.

When social situations begin, I start to stim – a natural response, but one that draws judgmental looks that are hard to ignore. So, most of the time, I try to mask, behaving in ways that society expects. But how can I be authentic and true to myself when doing so comes at the expense of social acceptance?

I’m often told that I’m too hard on myself, that everything will be okay if I just try my best. But unfortunately, to me, my “best” means perfect, and anything less is unacceptable to my brain. When I see others working harder or doing better, I struggle to take a break, to rest. Instead, I push myself to the point of burnout, where the world feels like it’s closing in on my chest. Every noise becomes louder, every feeling stronger, and I become hyper-aware of every single sense.

Yet, despite all of this, I was repeatedly misdiagnosed – doctors assuming I was simply anxious or depressed. The truth is, I am neurodivergent. I was overstimulated, overwhelmed and desperately needed to learn how to decompress. Instead, I withdrew from the world, often becoming nonverbal, left speechless by my own exhaustion.

I spent so long believing I was the problem – always the first to apologise, always begging for forgiveness. I thought something was wrong with me, and my low self-worth became my greatest weakness. I couldn’t understand my own brain, which made me feel like I was hiding some devastating secret.

I was constantly trying to glue shattered glass back together without even knowing what had broken it in the first place.

But I wasn’t broken – I was autistic. I spent so much time searching for a fix when, in reality, there was nothing that needed to be treated.

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Caffeine, new hobbies, late-night deep dives into hyperfixations, endless scrolling, starting projects I never finish – anything that might unlock that rush, even just for a moment. And when a task doesn’t come with that dopamine spike? Oh my gosh, the resistance. It doesn’t just feel difficult; it feels impossible.

Yet in a world obsessed with consistency – grind culture, gym gains, productivity, perfectly tidy homes – it’s easy to feel like we’re failing.

Like we should be able to stick with things. Like we should just push through.

But what if we reframed it? Think of everything you’ve accomplished despite this challenge. How resilient must that make you? Think about your hyperfocus, your deep dives into research and all those short-lived hobbies. How beautiful and deeply human it is to possess that kind of intense curiosity – to learn, to explore, to create. And the courage it takes to even put yourself out there and start something new? That makes you incredibly interesting.

Exhausting. Exhilarating. The dopamine-seeking cycle can be difficult to live with at times. But it’s also the reason behind so many of the most incredible aspects of ourselves. And we can’t forget that, too.

*Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that plays a vital role in the brain’s reward and motivation systems, as well as in motor control, attention and executive functions.

What’s Dopamine?

Dopamine is like your brain’s feel-good chemical. It’s important for:

• Feeling motivated
• Experiencing pleasure and rewards
• Staying focused
• Controlling your movements

The Basics

People with ADHD might have some issues with dopamine in their brains. It’s like their dopamine system isn’t working as smoothly as it should.

How It Affects You

1. Focus struggles: Low dopamine can make it hard to pay attention whilst completing tasks.
2. Motivation challenges: People with ADHD might find it tough to get started on assignments or stick with long-term projects.
3. Reward seeking: People with ADHD may crave instant gratification more than others.

The Science Bit

• ADHD brains might have fewer dopamine receptors or clear out dopamine too quickly.
• Some ADHD genes are linked to how dopamine works in the brain.

Treatment Connection

Many ADHD meds work by boosting dopamine levels or how it’s used in the brain. That’s why they can help with focus and motivation.

Understanding this dopamine-ADHD link can help People with ADHD make sense of why they might think or behave in certain ways. It’s all about brain chemistry!

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The natural variation in brain shape and function in the human population is called neurodiversity. It acknowledges that people with conditions including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and dyspraxia have distinctive strengths and struggles. These distinctions should be acknowledged and cherished rather than seen as deficiencies or disorders.

In contrast to the conventional medical model of mental health, which sees these disorders as abnormal and in need of treatment, neurodiversity contradicts this approach. Instead of expecting people with neurodiversity to conform to neurotypical norms, it acknowledges that neurodiversity is a natural and valued component of human diversity. These individuals should be given the assistance and accommodations they need to thrive on their own terms.

In recent years, the neurodiversity movement has grown in popularity and acceptance, which has changed how people with neurodiversity conditions are perceived and supported. One example of this shift can be seen in how we support individuals with ADHD, where understanding and accommodation have replaced outdated approaches focused solely on “fixing” behaviours.

Supporting Someone with ADHD: A Practical Guide
If you have a friend or colleague with ADHD, here are seven ways to provide meaningful support while honouring neurodiversity principles:

1 Educate Yourself
Educate yourself about ADHD and its symptoms so you can better understand what your friend is experiencing.

2 Be Patient
Be patient and understanding if your friend is struggling with attention, impulsivity, or hyperactivity.

3 Offer to Help
Offer to help your friend with organisation and time management, such as by setting reminders or creating a schedule.

4 Avoid Interruption
Avoid interrupting your friend when they are speaking or engaged in a task, and give them your full attention when they are talking to you.

5 Be Supportive
Be supportive and non-judgmental if your friend is experiencing difficulty or frustration.

6 Identify Strengths
Help your friend identify their strengths and find ways to use them to their advantage.

7 Be Understanding
Be understanding and flexible when plans change or unexpected challenges arise, and offer your support and help when needed.

The journey toward a more neurodiverse-inclusive society begins with individual actions and understanding. Whether supporting a friend with ADHD, a colleague with autism, or a family member with dyslexia, the principles remain consistent: education, patience, and genuine acceptance. By following practical steps like those outlined above and embracing the broader philosophy of neurodiversity, we can all contribute to creating environments where neurological differences are not just accommodated, but valued as essential threads in the tapestry of human experience.

This shift in perspective benefits not only neurodiverse individuals but enriches our entire society through increased innovation, creativity, and diverse ways of thinking and problem-solving.

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